So you have a crush on a guy, huh? When women like a guy, sometimes it’s hard to handle. Usually guys are the pursuers, and women are used to having guys come up to them and show interest. But how come the guy that you actually like is never one of the ones that comes up to you? That’s how life goes sometimes, and you just have to deal with it. Now that the tables are turned, it’s up to you to get his attention (in a positive way) and show him that you’re interested in him. So how do you do that and end up getting the guy?
Kiss him on the cheek for no apparent reason
Girls may kiss their guy friends on the cheek, but they don’t kiss them on the cheek at some random time for no apparent reason. It’s something is very subtle but definitely noticeable, a nice way to put yourself out there without jumping off the cliff completely. It’s guaranteed that he will think about what it might mean, or even ask you why you did it. Either way, it gives you a nice ice breaker that can spark his interests.
Pull him aside for some alone time
Maybe you’re really into one of the guys that’s a part of your group of friends. Or maybe he’s a friend of a friend that you see at parties and such. Use the party atmosphere as a chance to stand out by pulling your guy interest aside for some alone time. Taking him to the side away from the hustle and bustle of the party shows that you’re interested in spending some time with him, and not just with everybody. Also, going on a nice walk or talking with each other away from the crowd allows you both the opportunity to get to know each other on a deeper level and share a moment. Friends may do that at random, but if you’re initiating the situation, he’ll know that there’s something more there.
Ask him out
Probably the most obvious (and most nerve racking) option is to just tell him. There is something to be said for the direct approach. It shows just how interested you really are and it has the advantage of getting an honest answer up front. Some women will hint at a man for a long time only to find out that he’s not really interested. Why waste so much time? Being up front and asking him out puts it all out there. Sure, you have the opportunity to hear an answer you don’t want to hear, but that risk exists either way. The only difference is that you get to know the answer sooner rather than later.
Showing interest in a guy can be a tricky thing, but I think for the most part women make it harder on themselves then it has to be. The hardest part of something new is always the first step. While it can be hard for us to put ourselves out there, most of the times it’s just better to do it and good things will come. Go show that guy that you’re interested and give yourself an opportunity to spark something new.
