It’s true that women put a lot of stock into how a man kisses. Never is this more apparent than when you have your first kiss with a woman. A first kiss is the beginning of a brand new stage in a relationship between two people, and it represents the possibility that you’ve found your life love and you’ve just had your last first kiss. Feeling the pressure yet? Well, you shouldn’t freak yourself out about it. There are a few things that you can do to make sure your first kiss is a memorable one, and for a good reason.
Apply the right amount of pressure
A common mistake that men make when kissing a woman is that they don’t apply the right amount of pressure. A lot of guys struggle to find the right balance on a woman’s lips. If you’re too strong with the approach, it just comes off as too aggressive, and it loses all of the romantic appeal. On the other hand, if you’re too tentative and soft with your lips it lacks passion. Woman want to feel the excitement without losing the romance, and applying the right amount of pressure is the key component in that.
Don’t be so sloppy
Most men are a little over eager when it comes to kissing a woman. Guys sometimes kiss too sloppily, thinking that tongue is the key to a good kiss. Surprise, surprise, it’s not. Use a little control and don’t just go in there with mouth open and tongue flailing. For a kiss to be passionate, it has to have a smoothness to it. Having a person slobber all over you isn’t exactly smooth.
Use your hands
This doesn’t mean what you think. You shouldn’t grope your woman as you lay a kiss on her. Using your hands means to do things that bring passion (not cheapness) to the kiss. Run your fingers through her hair, or maybe touch her face to guide it into yours. These are the little things that make her melt and will have her thinking about you for the rest of the day.
Close your eyes
There’s not much more to say about this. Kissing someone with your eyes open is just strange, and you have a better chance at weirding her out than sparking a lasting relationship.
Mean it
When you are truly attracted to someone and have real feelings for them, a lot of times the kiss will take care of itself. If there’s one thing that a mutual attraction can bring, it’s chemistry. A lot of people say that once you find that special woman, it all kind of falls into place…and the same rule applies to a first kiss. You don’t have to worry about faking passion and analyzing your technique if you have a natural attraction to the other person.
Thinking about a first kiss is usually a lot more agonizing than actually doing it. Guys can sometimes over-analyze what they need to do, and in the end that really just makes it worse. Take these tips and keep them in the back of your mind. But when the time comes, don’t waste a first kiss thinking about how you’re doing. Allow yourself to be lost in the moment, and chances are you’ll do just fine.
