What do you do when you finally found that great guy you want to be with? If he’s really as great as you think, then there’s probably more than one lady vying for his attention. Great guys can be hard to find, so when a woman finally reaches that point of attraction with someone, it’s a special thing. The last you want is to be disappointed and not come away with the guy. Don’t worry about it though, here are some foolproof ways to make sure you’re the one that’s constantly on his mind.

Be low maintenance

Nothing is a bigger turnoff than a pretty girl that is high maintenance. When you have to do every little thing for someone, especially someone that is capable of doing it for themselves, it gets old real quick. Men like to do things for their women to show them how much they care about them. If it becomes something that’s “expected” of them, it loses all attractiveness. When a man meets a woman that can take care of herself and doesn’t need to be pampered all the time, it’s a big plus.

Be “one of the guys”

How cool is it when a woman can hang out with all of a guy’s friends and have a great time? Unbelievably cool. Having a woman that even your friends think is fun puts you above 90% of guys out there. Be able to watch the game and even know what’s going on. When you guys go out somewhere, talk and joke around with his friends. Don’t just act like you’re having fun, actually let your guard down and have fun. When you’re a pleasure to be around (even with his friends), then it brings the two of you closer, and he’ll see you more as a person that he wants to be around as well as the girl that he likes.

Be supportive

A big part of what makes being with someone special is the companionship you feel with them. Having a partner that understands and supports you is a big part of any positive relationship. If you know something that your guy struggles with sometimes, make an effort to help him through it. Don’t judge him on his flaws, but show him that you’re there to help him. The fact that you understand his flaws and he’s comfortable enough to share them with you speaks volumes of the trust that he has to have in you. Trust is hard to find in the dating game, so it’s not something that he’ll let go of very easily.

Be able to laugh at yourself

Guys love to joke around. Having a woman that can not only take a joke but also throw some around herself (see “be one of the guys” above) is a big turn on. Guys hate it when women take themselves so seriously, it takes all the fun out of being around them. Looks fade, but a sense of humor makes you want to be around someone forever. If you can laugh at yourself, then you’ll both have a better time together and he’ll be waiting until he gets to see you again.

Be sexy

Obviously a woman’s sex appeal is a factor in how a guy feels about her, so being sexy in his eyes is a must. You might be surprised what a guy thinks is sexy though. Yes the nice lingerie on a special night is sexy, but it’s not as sexy as a t-shirt and panties. Guys like it simple. They like knowing that their cool girlfriend also turns them on when she’s just wearing normal everyday clothes. Want to really be sexy to him? Wear one of his shirts to bed.

As you can see, almost all of these tips center around your personality. The key is to be sexy and attractive to a man, but also have a personality that most women just don’t have. Separate yourself by being the cool girl that everyone wants to be around because you’re fun. Show him you’ll be there for him and he can confide in you things that he can’t even tell his friends. If you can relate to your guy on a higher level than just your physical attraction, then you’re well on your way to becoming his only one.