Woman constantly talk about how over time their men don’t show the same amount of spontaneity and spark in their relationships after being together, or dating, for a while. It’s human nature to sometimes take things for granted after some time, but to maintain a healthy, happy relationship you need to recognize that and do what you can to get put the spark back in your relationship. How do you do that? Probably not the way you think. You’ll see as we go through the list, the recurring theme is effort. If you just put forth the effort to try, that’s worth most of the points right there. These tips to wow your woman are aimed at people that have been in relationships for a while, but they can also be used to make a great impression on a first date.
1. Make her dinner. Simple yet effective. Every woman loves when a man is willing to cook for her. Don’t think that you need to be an iron chef either. Most women just want to know that you would make the effort. If all you can make is mac and cheese, she would probably smile and think it was the most romantic mac and cheese she’s ever had. Don’t forget the details either. Go to the store and get a bouquet, plus a vase if you don’t have one, and have a nice little flower arrangement on the table. Last but not least, make sure to get her favorite drink or dish to show her how much you listen and know her. It is the effort and your attention to detail in that effort that will show how much you care.
2. Buy flowers or a card for no apparent reason at all. The beauty of being spontaneous is that is shows you were thinking about her when she wasn’t there. Get her some nice flowers just on a random day to show her you care about her and you can still be the man she fell for at the beginning. It’s never about the amount you spend, just that you had her on your mind randomly throughout the day. Want to make it even more special? Send them to her work in the middle of the day as an added surprise.
3. Plan a secret surprise. This sounds kind of vague, right? What kind of secret surprise? The reality is, it doesn’t matter. For instance, call her parents and plan to have them watch the kids for a weekend without telling your lady, then take her on a surprise weekend getaway at the last minute. There’s a lot of different things you can do with this, but the point is that you are putting in the effort to surprise her with a good time for the two of you.
4. Take her lunch at work. How do you think she will feel if you showed up with a nice lunch in the middle of her work day? Probably like a million bucks. This is especially effective if you two happen to work fairly demanding jobs that don’t allow you to spend a lot of time together during the week. Being able to spend a nice lunch with your significant other to break up the hectic work week can sometimes be just what the doctor ordered.
5. Wash her car. I know what you are saying…washing her car? What’s so romantic about that? There are a lot of good things in washing her car though. For one, you are doing something for her that takes a lot of time and effort. Second, it’s a nice gesture to take care and clean something that his hers. Everyone loves a clean car, and it’s a pain having to clean it yourself. Showing that you will be her man and do it for her because you care about her is enough to get her going.
6. Take her dancing. Don’t get scared, but women love to dance. I know for most men this is a frightening fact, as they don’t have great dancing skills. That is the big reason why taking your woman dancing can win you so many points. They know it’s out of your comfort zone, but you are willing to do it for her. Don’t worry if you’re not a great dancer, she won’t care. Take her somewhere with dancing that you can be adequate at, like slow dancing or line dancing, and just try to have as much fun as you can. There is no doubt that she will love it.
7. Spend a quiet night alone. It might sound crazy, but a quiet night alone could be just the thing to put a big spark back into your relationship. Why would you plan to spend time at home you say? It’s simple, you get to concentrate on the spending time with each other. Planning to stay home with a good movie and a big bowl of popcorn can be as romantic as any night out on the town.
Wowing your woman isn’t as hard as you might think it is. Mainly, they just want to know you care about them, and there are a lot of easy ways to show them that. A little bit of effort goes a long way. Instead of planning some expensive getaway, use the more subtle approach. When it comes to spending time, simple always prevails. Don’t make it about the activity, make it about yourselves.
